Archive for October, 2009

23
Oct
09

Trading Connections

image In July I attended a preaching conference in a very comfortable venue with balcony seating that wrapped around the floor seats as far as the front of the stage.  It was like box seating, being above and alongside the audience.

The sessions were varied and practical, and after each session a phenomenon unfolded below.  As the speaker concluded, as if on cue, nearly every member of the audience reached into a pocket and pulled out a phone (Blackberry, iPhone, whatever) to do their cybernetic duty.  Stretched out beneath me a sea of glowing screens shimmered.

This somewhat amusing ritual conveyed a more melancholic tone after a session on the dominance and dangers of technological obsession.  What struck me at the moment was not only that the speaker’s prophetic words had been so quickly discarded, but that the audience had intentionally chosen to ignore one another.  During the session, it is proper, polite and practical to give the speaker undivided attention until he/she finishes.  But afterward, the gathering of humanity affords the opportunity to connect through conversation and actual presence.  Instead, those simple and immediate connections were traded for connections both distant and impersonal.  What is this craving within us to opt for one-dimensional community when multi-dimensional relationship is at our elbow?

This is a learned behavior.  Ever since “other” connections were made available to families and other gatherings, we have been drawn like moths to the flame of glowing screens.  Ever notice how many restaurants today have multiple televisions illuminating every corner?  And have you noticed how easily your eyes are drawn away from your table mates to that pixelated monster?

Our best friend at the end of a busy day is often an e-mail inbox, a TV remote, an mp3 player, or a web browser.  Too many times our home becomes a box for storing three or four individuals wired to the world, but disconnected from one another.  Once again our technological advancements have gifted us with the progress of alienation and pseudo-community.

And yet, the choice is mine (and yours) to opt for flesh and blood over LED displays.

22
Oct
09

Serendipity – Lessons in Trusting God’s Wisdom

IMG_2615 For as long as I can remember I have longed to travel to Vermont to see the leaves dance with joyful color just before they glide to the earth.  Early in our marriage, Jana and I shared that desire, and, after twenty-five years of marriage, and the disposing of every excuse, we made our plans and made our way to the land of rural majesty.

This was, in many ways, the least planned vacation we have ever taken – and it was our first without children as our traveling companions.  The week was picked rather randomly because we had limited options due to schedules.  Our location was determined mostly by proximity to the airport, economic deals and availability of accommodations.  Our daily itinerary was left completely open, though I had done some research and marked a few things that I considered interesting possibilities.

We relaxed into our trip and took what came (a good thing considering the mess that our flights to and fro proved to be).  And in this innocent trust we experienced God’s treasures.

The lodging that we had “chosen” was at the epicenter of several potentially delightful experiences, and we drank them in.  During our first day in Stowe, Vermont, we stopped by a smallIMG_2646 grocery store to grab a few supplies and asked some of the locals for one or two sights or activities that we should not miss.  Our query tripped an avalanche of marvelous ideas, most of which required little or no financial investment.  One woman even chased us down in the parking lot when she heard about our inquiry and spent a half-hour firing suggestions, even giving us her well-marked map of New Hampshire to help with, what would prove to be, our next-day trip.  The Mount Washington Hotel at the base of Mount Washington was stunning.

One evening as I leisurely thumbed through a local magazine I came across a series of brief articles on IMG_2697local attractions – attractions that no one had mentioned thus far.  And so, our next morning’s hike to “The Pinnacle” (a peak of 2600 feet providing a 360 degree view of Stowe and the surrounding areas), while a challenging climb for two unprepared walkers, was a sacred moment.   We stood atop the world alone together on a sunny, frosty morning, looking upon the brightly dappled mountains surrounding us, and experiencing the awe of God’s creative hand.

Later that day, also urged on by the magazine article, we drove a few miles north of town to make the short and far less grueling hike to see Moss Glen FallsIMG_2722 – a 120+ foot fan-shaped cascade slicing through a shady hillside.  It is jaw-droppingly beautiful, making the observer completely forget the muddy trek it takes to get there.

We saw covered bridges, gaps, notches, gorges, peaks and so much more in our daily excursions, all serendipitous gifts because we had no agenda except to simply “be” in this place, open to the suggestions of mouth, print, weather, heart and energy.

We experienced the quaint friendliness of small towns and local “mom and pop” stores.  Twice we visited grocery/deli shoppes in New Hampshire and Vermont, feasting on sandwiches made simply, but with such pure product and experience, that we consider them a step above the more expensive formal dining ventures that our evenings held.

On our final day, traveling to Burlington to catch our late afternoon flight (which turned out to be an early evening flight. . .  that is another story), we assumed the best was done.  And then on a pristine IMG_2787day of sun and warmth, we cruised Burlington and came upon the view from Battery Park overlooking Shelburne Bay (part of Lake  Champlain) and the distant mountains.  Once again the jaws dropped and I reached for the camera.  A Burlington-er/ite/ian (?) even went out of his way, as we were snapping shots, to mention that that day was the most beautiful day he can remember.

Truly refreshing in almost every way.  That is how I would describe this vacation.  And all because we chose to not plan it into oblivion.  We decided where we would sleep at night, and when we would arrive and leave.  Beyond that, the details were left to God and the wisdom He would provide.  I think there might be a life lesson in that somewhere.

Planning is necessary to keep me from stumbling into foolishness, but the wisdom of Jesus to “not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself” is suddenly a little more real and proven.  Yes, I realize that our Lord was speaking about more essential things in life than vacation itineraries (specifically, food and clothing), but an obsession with control is often the pathway to snowballing angst.  Failing to relax into the guidance of God’s agenda not only knots my colon, but it deprives me of the gift of serendipity.  Apparently God knows better the discoveries which need to pop up on the horizon of my life than I do.  I drove the car, but He made the road.  And the view was exquisite.

08
Oct
09

Everywhere I Go

A trend in television commercials lately has been the “common symbol.”  With amazing creativity, the advertisers cause the consumer to see the brand they are selling in the most common of images.

Progressively taller bars (used on cell phones toimage indicate signal strength) is the image that  Cingular/ATT has used for several years to plug their brand of cell phone service.

Lowe’s does it with the appearance of a “T” in various forms popping up at the end of the Lowe’s sign on the store, thus emphasizing Lowe’s as the place where the Lowe’sT prices can be found.

Vizio has recently exposed the view to “V”s everywhere.

American Express presents a parade of “smiley faces.”

This practice of image stamping in our brains is highly creative, very entertaining, and apparently successful in causing consumers to see the featured product at every turn.

God’s desire is for His children to see Him at every turn.  He achieves this, not by some crass version of image stamping, but by placing His Spirit in us, and by leaving His fingerprints throughout creation.

I just returned from a week in the Boundary Waters Canoe Area Wilderness, a federal park area IMG_2416running along the northeastern Minnesota/Canadian border.  Our first two days on the water were pretty miserable – relentless rain and blustery winds.  But the following three days were spectacular.

The Boundary Waters is one of those places on earth where the wonder and majesty of God can nearly be plucked out of the air and held in your hands.  One of the guys in our group mentioned what a privilege it is to be able to take the time to be in that place.  He stated that this beautiful wilderness has been given to us to enjoy and I began to consider our time there as a mandate.  Why else would God create such a stunning display, than to have man discover the magnitude of the Creator’s power and skill?  Human beings are practically obligated to spend time in primitive natural environs to become acquainted more deeply with the creative hand of the Maker.  It is in those places that we discover Him to greater and greater degrees.

Having been in those places less diminished by IMG_2444man’s “progressive” efforts enables me to see Him more clearly in the buzz and bustle of “normal” life.  Our eyes become dulled to God’s glory through the man-centered existence that is our obsession.  Often we must be willing to go to those places which can scrub the lens clean, revealing the radiance of holy majesty.

Rich Mullins wrote and sang about the training of his God-vision.

Lord, You’re leading me
With a cloud by day
And then in the night
The glow of a burning flame
And everywhere I go, I see You
And everywhere I go, I see You

And You take my hand
And You wash it clean
I know the promised land
Is light years ahead of meIMG_2473
And everywhere I go, I see You
And everywhere I go, I see You

Well, the eagle flies
And the rivers run
I look through the night
And I can see the rising sun
And everywhere I go, I see You
And everywhere I go, I see You

Well, the grass will die
And the flowers fall
But Your Word’s alive
And it will be after all
And everywhere I go, I see You
And everywhere I go, I see You

“I See You” by Rich Mullins

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